But each loss should be viewed as a lesson that can teach us how to improve ourselves and progress to a better future. By not demanding that he listen to her when she wants to talk, she can avoid making the problem much worse by having a huge argument. I have dedicated the last 30 years to finding healthy solutions to the most common ailments affecting our happiness in life.
I am here for you. The different perception of expenditure can lead to conflict when the man thinks his work has earned him, say, 20 points and deserves corresponding recognition, while the woman has assigned him only 1 point and recognizes him accordingly.
When she gives of herself, but doesn't receive adequate love and attention in return, her wave becomes unbalanced, cresting and eventually crashing.
I wrote Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus only after experiencing the tremendous heartbreak of a failed relationship and then feeling the immense joy of finding the true love of my life.
I have seen most of our world and experienced its layers of humanity. I know I have been blessed with this life and these gifts so that I can share them with the world.
Then, a woman needs the attention, listening, understanding, and reassurance of those around her—as well as self-love.